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Hot Wife.  I can almost imagine the visual images that come to most people’s minds when you hear those two words together.  Provocative or scantily clad women who are ready to engage in a variety of sexual activities.  At least that’s the images that came up when I Googled those key words. Hopefully, that’s not the direction YOUR mind went in.  Hopefully, your thoughts were more in line with mine.  When I hear the words Hot Wife, I think of someone who is confident and knows her worth.  Someone who is strong and successful.  Someone who pursues her purpose with passion.  Someone who laughs often and loves hard.  Someone who desires to have it all and believes she can.  When I hear the words Hot Wife, I think of ME.

Hot Wife Hot Life was created out of a desire to see women fall in love with the lives they live.  It’s time out for merely existing from day to day, going through the motions and settling for a mediocre life.  It’s time to wake up and show up for our life!  I know we desire better and we deserve better.  Life is short and we must seize the moment.  I never fully considered this until my sister passed away from cancer at the age of 41, leaving behind a 16 year old and a 4 year old who would have to go through life without her.  And one of her biggest regrets was that she never got married.  The day she passed away was the day I woke up.  The day I realized that life is a precious gift and I don’t want to continue taking it for granted. I no longer wanted to live an unfulfilled life.  And I know there are others who feel the same way.  The HWHL Community was created to support, encourage, motivate, empower, educate, enlighten, elevate, inspire, and celebrate wives, and those who want to become a wife to have absolutely amazing lives and marriages.

Now that you know why the Hot Wife Community was created, you need to know what a Hot Wife is.  Hot Wives are real women who love themselves, their lives, and their marriages.  They are strong and they possess the following 3 characteristics:

  • CONFIDENCE- a feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities.  Hot Wives know they do not have to compete with anyone.  They have a mindset that they are enough and they carry themselves  with the knowledge of their worth.  They have standards and they not only expect respect, they demand it.  Hot Wives are unapologetically genuine & secure with themselves.
  • COMPETENCE-the ability to do something successfully or efficiently.  Hot Wives trust in their skill and knowledge to get the job done.  We operate in a constant state of learning which makes us invaluable and irreplaceable.
  • COURAGE- the choice and willingness to confront agony, pain, danger, uncertainty, or intimidation.  Hot Wives are brave & fearless!  They fight for what is important to them and overcome whatever obstacles stand in the way of their true happiness.

Hot Wives have an abundance of confidence, competence, and courage.  There isn’t any room for being a hater because we are too busy celebrating all the great things going on.  If you’re ready to join us in the HWHL Movement, be sure to connect with us and share your comments!  We would love to hear from you.